Playing Housewives

Hello Lovely people! Been awhile now huh?

My commitment to this blog is slowing down because I now have other duties to perform, but we will see how long I can keep up...Will be a challenge :) 

So…

Instead of being an excellent student by studying even during my mini-Maley-time. I constantly tend to use those 2-3 hours watching TV, especially Reality Shows such as Real Housewives of Atlanta, Love and Hip Hop Atlanta etc. Nothing wrong with that right? I mean it is my time lol. Well here it is…while watching those shows I suddenly realized why most of these supposed-to-be “real” housewives are divorced, going through a divorce or worse fight for a stupid guy like Steven J and putting their self-worth on the line. From my understanding and trust me it could be just me but I honestly think most of these women started from a very dysfunctional and economically difficult time in their lives, lived certain life-styles (Strippers, bartenders, waitresses socialites, striving artists etc) and then married men with what I call “big pockets”. What this means is that they are men with big careers and money, but are surrounded by heifers who are willing to do anything to become their baby-mommas. Of course with society being somewhat accepting the idea that men are inherently created to have inter-course at any time because they cannot control their sexual urges; as if they are the only creatures with needs! These men are likely to cheat and/or have multiple partners. When this happens word on the street will be that the wife did not perform her wifey-duties!! That is some bull-sh*t right there. Men cheat because they choose to cheat. It is not like the other woman is holding a gun/knife in her hand and saying “if you do not have intercourse with me I will kill you”…No!!

Oooookay back to the women lol

Most of these women at some point had a mind-set that they had/have found the “Mr. Right” who is financially steady and so they settle, knowing very well he comes with a lot of baggage. Instead of pursuing their dreams of becoming fashion-designers, musicians, and attaining academic professions, they are busy being or rather playing house-wives and before they know it, they are trapped for life especially when children are involved. Then they become obsessed with living large and like Nene Leaks said “keeping up with the Joneses” and showing off for other heifers to hate on, because the reality is that nowadays women dress to make other women jealous and wish they were them. Then the trouble comes in…with little money and enough media attention to be on TV, they suddenly want to do this, do that at the age of 30-50 O_O

 They start making their own money, sometimes even more than their husbands. Unfortunately, men with their ego of being the only bread-winners cannot handle it. The drama kicks in…divorce papers are being filled and the women are asking for more than what they can chew on. They state that their partners are not being supportive…of course he is not going to be supportive because he is used to you always asking for money and depending on him.

In my head ladies, 

how you get them is how you lose them! Therefore,

Instead of opening your legs, pushing babies out, becoming trapped forever, and pushing your own dreams of becoming independent and successful to the side all in the name of you have found “the one” why don’t you push “the one” aside first and focus on YOU!! That’s all. However, I will be watching and criticizing because at the end of the day they are very entertaining.